Tuesday, January 3, 2012

HAHAHA! Merry Christmas!

Heh. . . the W. Family.
Yeah, so I was going to post this before the holidays, but um. . . I didn't. And now, seeing as I went through all the time and effort of photoshopping my last name out of it so that you internet psychos don't stalk my family, I may as well post it belatedly.

It's the Christmas Card that we sent out. Don't ask me why I just capitalized "card". It's too late to change it now.

We lost all our addresses somehow, so we cobbled a bunch back together and started sending the card out about a week before Christmas. . . then stalled. . . then got sidetracked. . . then forgot.

If you didn't get one of these bad boys in real life. . . read nothing into it.

Just before I left work I was going to post this, but I was super busy and ran out of time. So. . . enjoy.  And, Merry Belated Christmas . . . Happy Belated Holidays.


Monday, January 2, 2012

So Much Stuff

So much stuff happened over the break.  Not like momentous Earth-shaking stuff, but I just feel like I've been on break forever.  I haven't really had a chance to catch up on my blogroll reading, much less write my own stuff.  But let me let you know what to expect/not expect from me/us moving forward:

What not to expect:
  • The Year in Review - Maybe I will someday, but I get so sick of lists and wrap ups and top 100 for 2011 shows on TV, I can hardly justify subjecting other people to it.  Also, considering I just started this blog in September, it just doesn't work.
  • The full recap of the holiday - I'll definitely touch on it.  I think we learned some things about our little Lily, and how to best optimize her holiday experience, but soooo much water has gone over the dam at this point that I feel stressed out even thinking about trying to give the break its "due" in writing.  I will broad brush it, for sure, and post pics, and tell specific stories.  But it's wearying me even thinking about covering the two weeks it seems like I've been off.
What to expect:
  • EEG Results Discussion - We know nothing.  But I sort of suspected we'd know nothing.  We meet with the pediatric neurologist on Thursday.  I expect to hear something then, and the something I expect to hear is. . . "nothing" and by that I mean, Lily has a long history of not having anything outside the norm to point at or to that suggests more appropriate treatments for her symptoms.  That is to say, she's not Fragile X, all her blood levels are more or less normal, her MRI was more or less normal, etc.  Every new specialist we see tells us there's nothing special about our special little girl.  That said. . . I also wouldn't be terribly surprised to learn something, but that's not been my experience to date.  "She's a puzzle."  Yeah, no shit.
  • Some stories about the holidays:  Church, Holidays at the various houses, the extended break from school.  They're sort of backing up in the queue, and I need to write them out before my failing memory transforms poetic license into outright fabrication.
Some random tidbits:
  • I bought my wife "Wit and Wisdom", which is the book to which it seems 90% of my blogroll contributed.  She really likes it.  It's actually like a perfect storm for her, bookwise.  She's always been more of an emotional reader, more apt to get involved in writing that touches her heart.  These stories obviously do that, but what makes it even better for her is. . . and I'm half kidding here. . . she's borderline narcoleptic.  I mean, she's actually not narcoleptic, but Leslie loves her sleep.  In the past when I've recommended books to her she's started them and stalled about a 100 pages in because she can't read more than a couple pages before ZZZZZZZZZZZZ.  In fact, sometimes she can't finish my blog posts (when I get a little wordy) without smelling salts and toothpicks holding her eyelids up.  Although that may just be the writing. . . hmmm. . . 
  • She bought me, "The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time" by Mark Haddon.  Or, more accurately, I bought it for myself and she asked if she could wrap it because she bought me this kickass North Face coat, and tapped my budget dry, so I really didn't have anything to unwrap on Christmas.  I read it in three days, but it could EASILY be read in a couple hours given enough guilt-free reading time.  I recommended it to her.  We'll see if she can make it past the 100 page zzzz-boundary.
  • I don't really blog when I'm at home with my family.  It's just not convenient.  I know it seems ironic that I blog at work, but I write on my lunch break in my office while I eat, saving the long posts to finish on subsequent days, and I just don't ever really have that sort of free time at home.  Even when I'm free to write I feel guilty doing that over spending time with the kids or getting something constructive done.  So I'll tweet occasionally, or play words with friends, but I don't really blog much.  Nor do I read blogs when I'm at home.  So I'm soooo far behind now, I'm probably not going to dig myself out of the blogroll rut I'm in.  If you have a post you're particularly fond of/proud of, please let me know.  I'd still love to read it, I'm just too far behind at this point.  
  • My New Year's Resolution was to lose 15 pounds.  I'll be watching my diet a little more closely, choosing the least evil option, for example, or managing portions more reasonably.  And I'll be running.  I'm not a marathoner or anything.  A few miles here, a few miles there, working up to something along the lines of 3-5 miles at a time, 3 - 4 days a week.  I don't want to burn out on it, but I think 15 pounds is a reasonable goal, and hope to make it more once I've met it.
That's it for now.  You'll be seeing more posts this week, now that I'm no longer on break.



Thursday, December 22, 2011

Big Timin' It V - Autismwonderland

photo courtesy of www.autismwonderland.com
Back to our regularly scheduled program.  Less snark, more sensitivity.  I was approached to write a guest post for Lisa over at AutismWonderland.  When I asked if she had any topics in mind, she more or less said, "whatever", explaining that as a father raising two daughters any perspective I shared on her blog would be a unique perspective from her own posts.  She went on to say perhaps something holiday related, about expectations.


I agreed at once, and started a blog post on that topic before scrapping it.  Typically when someone asks me to guest post, I'm able to cobble something together relatively quickly, then I just fine tune it until I'm comfortable sharing.  This time I was coming up blank.  


I decided to ignore the whole "expectations/holiday" theme and just get writing.  It had been a week.  I started another post.  I wrote for what seemed like a long time.  I edited it.  I moved things around so that I felt it flowed better.  Then I read through it one last time before scrapping that too.


It was now two weeks since first being approached.  The topic itself was a distant memory at this point.  But I had an idea.  I had a vision in my mind of taking little brain clips. . . like a movie trailer of memories. . . a clip of Lily here, a clip of Lily there, written in present tense, as if it were happening right now, today. . . and after I started writing it, I tied the clips together with a summary.  When I was done, I found that what I had written could be summarized as follows:  A holiday blog post about expectations.  What the hell??  How had it even happened?  BRILLIANT!  Except I failed to give it a title.  MORON!  She doesn't even know I named it, because I'm just doing it now that I'm realizing I didn't.  We'll call it "Gentle Christmas".


Anyway. . . after you read the post, explore her blog.  It is fantastically organized and there's an amazing amount of categorized information and great blog posts there if you think to look for them. . . and. . . her blog logo is THE BEST.  I'm not kidding.  I don't know who ginned it up for her. . . but I strongly suspect she has an inside connection.


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or. . . because she's having issues with her Domain Name currently. . . try this:

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