tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6873182308469051103.post4884377783336656827..comments2024-01-20T05:43:50.949-05:00Comments on Just a Lil Blog: Anniversary Dates and Divorce Rates - Happy 12th AnniversaryJimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11538573774184028004noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6873182308469051103.post-81520034817382547092011-10-23T08:59:16.550-04:002011-10-23T08:59:16.550-04:00@30 we just went on our October date!
@Sam than...@30 we just went on our October date! <br /><br />@Sam thanks. I don't know why even saying something simple, like "I'm sorry" seems like such a challenge to "grown ups" but it does.Jimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11538573774184028004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6873182308469051103.post-17011058481812466822011-10-22T22:33:05.492-04:002011-10-22T22:33:05.492-04:00How right you are! I am 2x divorced, the second oc...How right you are! I am 2x divorced, the second occuring after a tense situation in which I learned that my "partner", my special needs kid's father was incapable of handling those special needs. To this day he believes I overreacted in protection of my son and destroyed our marriage prematurely. In reality, both men have taught me that no one is always right in a marriage and most of us spend too much time keeping score. We are all wrong in a hundred little ways, and often lose complete focus on our spouses to put out all of the kid related fires. Going back to your bedtime post, what do you think would happen if you said those same sentences to your spouse everyday "I love you, I believe in you, etc"? Couldn't everyone learn to say something nice about their partner/spouse everyday, and create a stronger bond built on respect vs degrading the bond by not maintaining it? I wish you both the best of luck at sustaining yourselves through your trials. In the end, you will have each other to focus on more, and will be much stronger for remember that now. Great blog!Samnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6873182308469051103.post-3498211360803413042011-10-21T19:04:04.657-04:002011-10-21T19:04:04.657-04:00your totally right. Raising children is a challen...your totally right. Raising children is a challenge. My husband and I are finally going on a date. First in months. I'm sure this is late...but Happy Anniversary guys.30on...Mom!https://www.blogger.com/profile/09008569691284097784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6873182308469051103.post-38192779334437701502011-09-27T21:53:40.149-04:002011-09-27T21:53:40.149-04:00I love you tooI love you tooLesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05371781666815336076noreply@blogger.com